How to split utilities: by usage or by equal share?
The gym-rat's hot showers shouldn't punish the person who works from home. But the math has to be tractable.
Utilities are where roommate fights start. Equal-splitting feels fair until one roommate showers for 40 minutes daily, leaves the heat on, and has 10 friends over each weekend. Usage-splitting feels fair until you realise you can't actually meter individual showers. The honest middle ground is a hybrid: equal for fixed costs (internet, standing charges), usage-proxy for variable ones (electric, gas, water). Here's how.
Steps
Worked example
Three roommates, €220 electric bill, one was away 10 days
Standing charge €40 split equally = €13.33 each. Variable €180 split by days at home: Anna 30/30, Ben 30/30, Cara 20/30. Anna 30/80 = €67.50. Ben 30/80 = €67.50. Cara 20/80 = €45. Total: Anna €80.83, Ben €80.83, Cara €58.33.
Use the 'shares' split mode for variable utilities and 'equal' for fixed. Document the ratio in the group description so a new bill doesn't reopen the conversation.